Ok. So. If someone (not saying who) got asked to spend the holidays with family where a certain member that is a B...ad word was going to be as well, would it be wrong to give that as a reason? Because "the person I am talking about" has no other reason for not going. "The person that I am talking about" doesn't want to be spanked or have their mouth washed out for reacting if this certain family member tries to cause a scene...which they will. Thoughts?